Part of living “simply” needs to be practical too. How do I clear the clutter in day to day living and simplify?
In the article, “how to get to the end of the year without regrets“, the authors recommend to: “clear the clutter in your physical and mental space”. They suggest that “instead of figuring out how to make ends meet, work on having fewer ends“. I think this is great advice.
In my Success on My Terms Post Script, I describe how when I made the decision to work for myself, one of the first things I did as a precaution in case my business didn’t thrive, was to create a budget with my husband based on “what we NEEDED”, not based on “what we WANTED”. This was about defining what was important to us, which included some nights out and fun days with the family, in addition to our “staples” (mortgage, food, childcare, etc.) I asked myself: How little can I live with? and I wrote that question on a little card which I still keep in visual view beside my desk. It inspires me and is a good reminder when I am about to buy things like a glow in the dark “moon” light for my toddler because he likes moons (which by the way, is close to $100 and I know will just go into storage in 2 years). So why not just look at the real moon? If my biggest asset is my time, as I explain in that post, I needed to align my “systems” to prioritize that “asset”, which meant having less things and spending less, so I had more of that thing I value so much: time.
The next thing we did was create a system (which was easy, required minimal effort and is practical) to ensure we could 1. Implement; and 2. adhere to, our financial needs with minimal effort all while feeling in control of our finances. We, like you, did not want to use our time undergoing tedious record keeping for the purpose of staying on budget. We wanted something that was simple and easy to implement.
Our system did not involve keeping receipts or tabulating what we were spending (a reactive approach that makes you compare what you spent, to what your budget says, rather than position you to not over spend).
Instead, our system was a proactive approach that did not require time consuming administration, just a few hours to set up. So here is what we did (it works!):
SET UP (ONE TIME ONLY):
Step 1: Create the Budget Template
We developed a budget based on 13 categories. The “categories” are an important part of the implementation as you will see in the implementation step. We created an easy template such as this one:
Step 2: Budget How Much You Need for Each Category
Our goal was to figure out what we realistically needed for each category to live in line with our priorities (which did include good programs for our kids, fun activities (such as skiing and day trips), 2 date nights a month and some organic food). It did not include Club Med vacations for example in which we could spend $5000 in one week ($5000 meant a whole month off for one of us, so why blow it in one week, was our thinking), etc. In developing the budget, we also did not consider or think about what our total monthly income was and distribute the funds, as many budgeting protocols advise to do. Rather we inserted amounts that we thought we needed to live in line with our priorities while balancing minimizing our costs. Once we established the amounts for each category, and calculated our Total Monthly Expenses, only then did we check if our budget balanced (i.e. if our budget was at or below our joint monthly income?).
By doing this, we found what we needed was a lot less than what we were making and spending historically. Before,, as we were making the money, and it was at our disposal to spend, we had the money, so why not go to club med and why not buy lots of stuff? We could afford it. The problem with the approach is that you need to work harder and harder to keep up with all the “toys” you are purchasing and then have to maintain.
Once we were finished creating the template, we printed it and discussed whether our assumptions were realistic. We also tested our thinking to see if we could bring the numbers down in any categories.
This system has been working beautifully for us. Not only does it make us feel in control, it is easy to set up and easy to implement. Also, the discipline allows us to control our finances without doing much (all we need to do is funnel the money to the accounts 2 x per month and use the right account to spend), which means less time working and more time for fun!!!